Safety6 minUpdated 2025-01-08
Safe sex toy use for beginners
Five principles that make your first experience both safe and pleasurable.
1. Read the instructions
Different toys have different charging, waterproofing and cleaning requirements. Two minutes now can save a broken toy later.
2. Use the right lubricant
Water-based lubricant works with everything. Silicone lubricant can damage silicone toys, while oil damages latex condoms.
3. Begin at the lowest setting
Vibration, suction and heat can feel stronger on sensitive skin than expected. Start gently and increase gradually.
4. Anal toys need a flared base
Anything used anally must have a wide base or retrieval loop so it cannot travel further inside.
5. Do not share without protection
When more than one person uses a toy, change the condom between users or clean it thoroughly first.
If something hurts in a way that does not feel good, stop. Pain is information, not a challenge.
This is general information, not medical advice. Speak to a doctor or sexual-health professional if something concerns you.