Honest information about sexual health, safety and sex toys.
Clear and direct, without shame or sales talk.
Sexual health
Body, desire, consent and wellbeing.
- 5 min
Body awareness and desire — a gentle introduction
Desire is not a switch. Learn about your body without pressure or performance.
- 4 min
Consent in practice — beyond yes and no
Consent is an ongoing conversation, not a box to tick.
- 3 min
Vibration, numbness and rest
Feeling numb after a powerful vibrator is common and usually passes on its own.
Safety
Safe use — alone or together.
Materials
Silicone, ABS, glass or metal — what should you choose?
Cleaning & storage
Keep your sex toys clean and in good condition.
Frequently asked questions
Can sex toys affect my natural sensitivity?+
Strong vibration can temporarily reduce sensitivity, but the effect is short-lived. Varying stimulation and using lower intensity can help.
How often should I replace a toy?+
Non-porous materials such as silicone, glass and metal can last for years with proper care. Porous materials should be replaced more often.
Is it safe to share toys with a partner?+
Yes, if you clean them between users or put a fresh condom on the toy. Otherwise bacteria and sexually transmitted infections can spread.
Which lubricant should I choose?+
Water-based lubricant works with every material and condoms. Silicone-based lubricant lasts longer but should not be used with silicone toys.
Is it normal not to orgasm with a toy?+
Absolutely. Bodies differ. You may need another type, a different setting or simply more time.
How do I talk to my partner about toys?+
Be direct and curious outside the bedroom. Frame it as something you can explore together, not criticism of what you already do.